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Survival Tip #2: Fearing/Accomodating Scarcity |
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Written by Lesley
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Thursday, 31 January 2008 |
The bitch about thrifting as a fat girl is that nothing fits.
Well, maybe that's a bit of a generalization. It's true that some fat
folk do score mightily on the thrift-shop battlefield - that rare breed
of vintage-committed fatty, possessed of the courage and persistence to
dig, dig, dig, refusing to abandon the fray without a bloodied,
hard-won trophy clutched in hir hand.
The extended metaphor is a bit much, but you get the idea of how I
personally feel about thrifting. I hate it. I hated it less when I
was less fat - in my first couple of years of college, when I was a few
sizes smaller and subsisting primarily on tightly-rationed top ramen
and breakfast cereal, I used to regularly visit the fabled and fabulous
Garment District in Cambridge, MA. The plus options were sorely limited,
but they were there, at least if you were a broke-ass student willing
to spend hours on a weekday morning engaged in the aforementioned
digging and digging and digging. My Best Garment District Score Ever
was a 1960s-era taffeta party dress, complete with crinoline, in white
with big black egg-shaped polka dots all over. It fit me like a
glove. It was GLORIOUS. Of course, I wasn't into dresses back then. I
would go so far as to say I was vigorously opposed to dresses at the
time. Hated them, even. So I bought this remarkable dress, took it
back to my dorm, and immediately "altered" it. For "altered," in the
last sentence, read "butchered". I think I was trying to make a skirt,
but I only succeeded in murdering this beautiful, innocent, pristine
vintage shiny-taffeta creature. These days I think of it on a level
with stumbling unawares upon a lone, happy unicorn on a walk through a
forest, and responding to the beautiful and unique experience by
slaughtering the thing. Unforgiveable.
The point I am coming to is about scarcity.
Stylish,
high-quality, well-fitting, affordable plus-size apparel is a scarce
resource. That may well be an understatement - the fact is it's often
damn near impossible to find, and the difficulty is directly related to
the size of the person looking. Scarcity, I would argue, is probably
the primary guiding principle of most fat-girl shopping.
Depending on the garment, the fabric, the fit, and the
manufacturer, I generally wear sizes between 22 and 28 on the standard
US plus-size spectrum, most often landing in the middle of that range,
in a 24 or 26. I cannot drop into trendy misses-sized stores and find
something that fits by happy accident - Forever 21, Urban,
Anthropologie, and H&M can supply me with shoes and accessories,
sometimes, but that's it. Thus, when I do find something in my size,
that I like, my tendency is to buy it in multiples. I find a cute
dress, I'll buy it in two or three colors. I do this because I am
literally haunted by the certainty that I Will Never Find A Cute Dress
Again. Much of my shopping is ruled by my complete understanding that
any day now, my options could be ripped away, damning me to a
miserable, suffocating, antifashionable (of course, in the eye of the
beholder) polyester hell. That I am, essentially, at the mercy of the
handful of plus-size manufacturers that create these clothes - should
they decide ponchos are all the rage, as they did a few years back,
then I am doomed for a season, as in a poncho I look like a sad, fat
donkey unexpectedly transported from hauling goods on a mountain trail
and plunked down in the midst of the bustling streets of Boston, and
their tidily-attired inhabitants. It's not attractive.
I'm sure there's plenty of fat folks less concerned with scarcity
than
I am. I likewise acknowledge that there's plenty of fat folks who
think this sort of Strategic Shopping is a waste of time and energy,
not to mention money, as there are certainly better ways of spending
one's cash, if one is in the eviable position of having the disposable
income to blow. And it probably says something about me as a good
little consumer that I have, on occasion, actually been kept awake at
night thinking about that dress I didn't buy, The One That Got Away.
Nevertheless, in my ever-vigilant efforts to offset the inevitable dry
season, the one in which the big trends are in catastrophic opposition
to my own personal sense of style, I employ a hunter-gatherer model and
stock up on multiples of the things I like. I also frequently buy
things on impulse, because I can never be sure they'll still be there
should I resist the purchase and then later change my mind. Sometimes
this is a smart move, as I actually work through any garment backlog
over time. More often this results in an oft-ridiculous surplus, and I
am compelled to offload my excess. Which leads into my forthcoming
Survival Tip #3.
Tags: survival tips thrifting for plus sizes crimes against vintage scarcity stocking up for the fat apocalypse Readers have left 7 comments. No.1 Untitled
TRUE BIZ. Luckily I have come across a small handful of great, great vintage dresses, all by Miss Rubette, that look astonishingly good on me, considering they were for sizely gals in the '60s. My problem in particular tends to be finding stuff that fits my ridiculously large bosom...so I always cross my fingers for more dresses that are elasticky with no zippers ;) No.2 An Index of Plus Thrift
One of the things I am trying to do in my own shopping is create an index of plus-friendly thrift stores. They're out there, they really are, but since most of them don't have websites it's hard to track them all. I've found some fab consignment stores in my own city after a dedicated day driving EVERYWHERE and taking notes on each location. I still have places in my city to visit yet. I published my results on my blog, but I'd love to get other people's notes from other cities! No.3 Untitled
I share your pain. As a youthful inbetweenie with 2 fat grandmothers I systematically worked through 4 decades of vintage cast-offs till I got too fat to wear them any more. This bears out my theory that the reason one so rarely finds vintage plus sized garments is because most fat women share the same mindset - i.e never throw anything away in case you never see anything you like in your size ever ever again. I also personally relate to the "must buy every cute frock that comes my way, regardless of whether I have the money or not" mindset precisely because I did live the nightmare of not being able to find dresses in my size for over a decade.
I do remember coming across a stall in London's Camden market that boasted lord knows how many 1950s Evans full-skirted cotton summer dresses, never worn and still with their original tags. Unfortunately they were charging an arm and a leg for the privilege so I had to sit that one out. Similarly I once saw the entire sartorial life of a (presumably deceased) fat woman laid bare in Portobello Road. Almost all of it looked to have been made for her and she must have had serious money. Sadly I can't sew worth a damn and, at the time, the clothes were about 3 sizes too big for me - so again I had to pass. Because of these two experiences I do still look in thrift shops, but tend to luck out with the odd 21st century cast-off rather than anything else.
In the UK, the kind of vintage I personally favour, (30s - 60s), has become obscenely big business. I have seen simple 1950s cotton print dresses priced upwards of £400 and featured in the glossies. Meanwhile what passes for vintage with the younger set, (i.e. clothes I'm old enough to remember the first time around and which are relatively affordable), simply baffles me. It's not that there weren't some fab clothes around in the 80s and 90s - it's just that most of the stuff I see at flea markets nowadays wasn't even fashionable at the time. And polyester looms large even in non-plus sizes. No.4 Re: An Index of Plus Thrift
One of the things I am trying to do in my own shopping is create an index of plus-friendly thrift stores... I published my results on my blog, but I'd love to get other people's notes from other cities! — Diana RajchelThis is an outstanding idea! I tend to avoid vintage and consignment shops I'm unfamiliar with, as I have neither the patience nor the grace to go in and eventually discover that nothing they carry is going to fit me. Such an index would be a fantastic resource! No.5 Re:
This bears out my theory that the reason one so rarely finds vintage plus sized garments is because most fat women share the same mindset - i.e never throw anything away in case you never see anything you like in your size ever ever again. — buffpuffIt's true. I have in the past worn garments way past the point at which other folks would have thrown them out. Even now I ration wearings of certain older garments since I know their days are numbered and I won't be able to find their like again. It's funny and depressing at the same time. No.6 Untitled
I do the rationing thing too. In fact I nodded so much reading your original post it's a wonder my head didn't fall off. No.7 Untitled
One of the few vintage dresses I was ever able to fit into came from the Garment District. It was an early '60s white taffeta with a black chiffon overlay and it was actually a little too big (!) so I took it in at the sides with safety pins. As dorky as it sounds, I wore it the first time I kissed the guy I ended up marrying. |
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