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One Of These Things Is Not Like The Other: or, Not All Menaces Are The Same |
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Written by Lesley
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Sunday, 09 December 2007 |
Yesterday I received the new copy of Bitch in the mail, something I always look forward to with gusto. This issue contains an article I found a bit distressing: "Big Trouble: Are eating disorders the lavender menace of the fat acceptance movement?", written by Lily-Rygh Glen. For those unfamiliar with the phrase, "lavender menace" was used during the second wave to describe the so-called "threat" the inclusion of lesbians posed to the mainstream feminist movement. The central point of this article is that the answer to the titular question is yes. The author argues that fat acceptance activists who also identify as having eating disorders are uniformly silenced and expected to remain closeted, and that the movement as a whole is opposed to the open inclusion of eating disorders as a valid subject of discussion within fat acceptance.
Setting aside for the moment the actual topic, taboo or not, of eating disorders amongst fat activists, my initial problem with this article - and the thing that knocked me for a loop when I first read the title - is the unabashed and unanalyzed conflation of two extremely different movements and sets of circumstances and historical contexts, that of second wave feminism and contemporary fat acceptance. This is a lazy habit fat acceptance falls into all too routinely. Fat oppression is not "like" racism, or classism, or homophobia - it intersects with these systems (and others) but it is most assuredly not the same thing. Borrowing (some would say appropriating) a familiar term to describe the perceived exclusion of a certain group may be a quick way to get one's point across but it's also a cheap one, and ultimately it erases the distinctive characteristics of the inarguably-fraught relationship between individuals' identifications as both fat and eating-disordered.
In other words, it takes a problem with its own unique context and turns it into a featureless, cookie-cutter concept.
The topic of eating disorders within fat acceptance is a sort of crisis of respectability for the movement. As fatness itself is frequently described as a kind of eating disorder (in the discourse of mainstream culture, if not medical or psychological) or as a disease to be cured, it is hardly shocking that some activists taking the narrow view would much rather avoid all talk of disordered eating altogether, and avoid all representations of fatness that even hint at such a connection. Fat acceptance is much easier to argue when one can hold up fat people who are utterly "normal" - people who are traditionally healthy, who have no mobility issues, who eat and enjoy food in the purest manner possible - as illustrations of acceptable fatness. It's the "We're just like you!" approach and it has a long history of excluding people and groups who cannot meet the exacting standards of mainstream approval. This sentiment, though unrealistic, is unsurprising. But it's not simply folks who identify as eating disordered that can suffer censure within the movement. My own experiences (if we're throwing around anecdata) have been profoundly different than the author's, and as a result this article has left me thoroughly baffled. Off the top of my head I can rattle off the names of a dozen people I've known in the fat acceptance movement who also openly identified as having eating disorders (either recovered, or still in treatment) and I am not aware of any broader movement-wide negative sentiment against said people - I cannot even recall a single instance of anyone observing to me that their eating disorder was taboo in the movement as a whole, though I am sure in some groups it may well be. In fact, the only fat acceptance activists I've known who've felt the need to be "closeted" lest they be cast out altogether are those who have had WLS (or who are thinking about it), or who otherwise choose to try to lose some weight for individual, private reasons. I have seen people falling into either of these categories dramatically crucified by some members of the fat acceptance movement, but even then it has never been an orthodox reaction, with as many people arguing in favor of individuals' personal agency even as others are calling for the condemnation of anyone who engages in these behaviors as a traitor to the movement, with plenty of folks landing somewhere in between these two extremes.
Part of the issue here seems to be that the author unquestioningly employs NAAFA as the central mechanism of fat acceptance. While NAAFA is certainly a large aspect of the movement's history and has a long legacy to illustrate it, NAAFA is, in my experience, far from the primary influence, or even the primary flagship, and fat acceptance itself is far less monolithic than this article seems to imply.
I am sure that in some quarters of fat acceptance eating disorders as a topic are indeed not discussed, and that there are local fat acceptance groups which expect the eating disordered to stay closeted so as not to "injure" the broader movement, as ridiculous as that sounds. Clearly this has been the experience of the author, who describes the wholly negative reactions of fat activists to her writing this article in the first place - any reactions that boil down to "just shut up" are inexcuseable in a movement supposedly built on the criticism of mainstream cultural assumptions about weight, health, and acceptance. However, I do have problems with the assertion that enforced silence around eating disorders is a movement-wide mandate or expectation. And I passionately feel that tarring the entire fat acceptance community with the tainted brush of an individual's localized experiences is a terrible, terrible mistake - the Bitch article is not constructive or proscriptive at all, it simply takes aim and fires, and then walks away. The author blurb at the end of the piece explains this approach - however inadvertently - stating that "As a result of the backlash to this article, she no longer considers herself part of the fat acceptance movement."
If those suffering this silence are unwilling to stand their ground, it's a sure thing that the problem - local or movement-wide - will not be remedied. I always thought that standing one's ground, carving out space, raising one's voice was what activism was ultimately about. While I can certainly sympathize with her negative experiences, this parting shot only serves to completely declaw the author's valid criticisms, with a cavalier Eric Cartman-style "Screw you guys, I'm going home," thrown over her shoulder. It leaves me wondering what the point of this article was at all, except an opportunity to exorcise a grudge.
Readers have left 9 comments. No.1 Untitled
<i>I am not aware of any broader movement-wide negative sentiment against said people</i>
Well, I am. There was a fat blogger who was pushing for a "normal fat" movement, excluding people with eating disorders and other health concerns. She got so fed up with the lack of enthusiasm this generated that she took her ball and went home.
I wonder what fat activists this person talked to for the story? It always confuses me when people don't go to the fatosphere, where plenty of people have their positions on tricky subjects like these laid out explicitly, sometimes dozens of times. No.2 Untitled
hey, this is a great commentary and i hope you consider sending it to Bitch as a reply to that piece. No.3 Untitled
Please do send this to Bitch No.4 Re:
I wonder what fat activists this person talked to for the story? It always confuses me when people don't go to the fatosphere, where plenty of people have their positions on tricky subjects like these laid out explicitly, sometimes dozens of times. — FillyjonkThat was my thinking as well. Even a cursory Google search is going to bring up a dizzying variety of fat activisms. Also, I don't mean to imply I think everyone in fat acceptance is hunky-dory with including EDs as a central topic - I know that's not true, and as a lecturer I personally used to have a no-ED discussion policy, though not for the reasons mentioned in the article, but because ED discussion would tend to utterly derail conversation about accepting fat without judgment. I just feel as though the article in question was an extremely superficial and simplistic look at the very underanalyzed and difficult relationship between fat acceptance and eating disorders. No.5 Untitled
Yeah, that's why I was wondering who she talked to... it's really easy to defend a facile premise when you deliberately narrow your research.
And yeah, what's particularly frustrating is that it didn't HAVE to be a facile premise... the relationship between fat activism, EDs, and illness is extremely rich and complex. But yeah, I still haven't read the article, but from your critique and some other things I'm seeing, it looks like it's just a personal rant. It's irritating that Bitch is legitimizing it. No.6 Untitled
Your last sentence really hits it on the head, Lesley. I founded FatGirl Speaks and am one of several fat activists in Portland. My relationship with Lily was tumultuous from the beginning. She tried to talk to me, on a personal level, about eating disorders early on, but I was in the middle of supporting a friend and her partner with cancer and didn't have the personal energy to have a conversation about anything deep with someone I didn't know (regardless of topic.) I explained this to her. That was our only conversation on the topic. She volunteered for FatGirl SPeaks, but almost vicariously, as an assistant to our fashion show coordinator. She did a lot of work, but nowhere in the planning stages did she ever enter the political process and ask about our stances on disordered eating, or bring up a desire to be more welcoming/inclusive to those who have it. There was no forward momentum on her part towards acknowledging, much less fixing, the problem she claims is so prevalent. Futher, I was not invited to speak to this article due to a personal beef she has with me, and I've spoken to other activist who were so put off by her initial inquiry that they refused to speak to her at all -- not because they don't want to talk about eating disorders, but because her premise and tone were so self-indulgent and attacking that they didn't feel safe or comfortable engaging with her. So she created her own situation in terms of folks not wanting to speak with her -- not because they wouldn't speak to the topic, but because they wouldn't speak to HER. There is plenty of room in the fat activist movement, or the body-positive movement, to talk about disordered eating. I'm sure some activists would rather focus their energies on other things, which is valid, as we each gravitate to the parts of the movement we are the most passionate about, and no activist can cover all the bases. But there is room for conversation, there is room for improvement, and there is ALWAYS room for any movement to be more educated about the lives of those it touches. The problem is that the topic needs to be approached, like any sensitive topic, with a warm heart and an open mind and a genuine and passionate curiosity about what, exactly, *everyone* can do to make a situation better. I'd invite the author to remember that in any repeating cycle, there is only one constant: You. No.7 Untitled
I think you put this very well. To say that the whole movement has a problem figuring in and talking about ED is total bologna. Rachel Richardson and Harriet Brown are two of my favorite fat bloggers and both speak quite frequently to ED. Not to mention HAES is quite popular in the movement and it is all about dealing with disordered eating/body issues. No.8 Untitled
Lily-Rygh Glen has a history of destroying valuable connections in the queer/feminist/fat communities nationwide. That Bitch would publish her article is as disappointing as the content contained within.
No.9 Untitled
Well, I am. There was a fat blogger who was pushing for a "normal fat" movement, excluding people with eating disorders and other health concerns. She got so fed up with the lack of enthusiasm this generated that she took her ball and went home
Well, yeah, but that flounce -- and the general reaction to it -- was evidence that this is NOT a movement-wide position, imo.
I take criticism for not being inclusive enough of people with EDs (note that this means, in this context, binge/compulsive eating, not anorexia/bulimia) frequently enough that I can accept the basic premise of it being a point of contention within the movement. But beyond that, yeah, the article just sounds like sour grapes.
The thing is, as I have said eleventy billion times, there are two major points I'm trying to get across here. 1) Fat people CAN be healthy and typically do NOT overeat any more than thin people do. 2) Regardless of what fat people eat or whether they're healthy, they are human beings who deserve dignity and respect.
Inevitably, if I talk about point 1 without explicitly stating point 2 in the same post, someone says, "But I DO overeat! What about me?" Well, the thing about you is, you represent less than 5% of fat people. And while I AM absolutely thinking about the rights of ALL fat people with regard to my activism, I think it's really important to get the message out that no, most fat people do not eat any differently than thin people. Not because I want points for being a "good" fatty, but because it is a huge MYTH that is constantly used against us all. I don't like it when false information has a hold on the public imagination. Sue me.
As I've also said eleventy billion times, I have a sister who's a compulsive eater, and categorically not the picture of good health. So when some stranger says, "You don't care about fat people with eating disorders!" I want to scream. Actually, I care more than you can freakin' imagine.
But that doesn't change the fact that fat acceptance has many facets, and many different issues to address. One of those issues is clarifying the difference between eating disorders and the typical eating habits of fat people -- not just because the "fat people are all gluttons" myth is just that, but also because the help available for people with binge/compulsive eating disorders currently SUCKS. It's way too focused on weight loss, and way too narrowly focused on another myth: that fat people overeat (and of course we ALL do, to one extent or another!) only because we're trying to stuff down emotional pain. No other reason, ever. BED/compulsive eating are just outgrowths of that, in the current paradigm -- not disorders that may well have physiological underpinnings (as they're finding with anorexia) and a zillion other complicating factors.
So the myth that all fat people constantly stuff their faces hurts ALL of us -- including those who do consistently overeat, and even including those who self-identify as "emotional eaters." Nothing about it is that simple, period. And we won't make any progress with fat acceptance or more comprehensive treatment for EDs if we can't get past the pervasive "fat people eat like hogs because they're sad" belief.
So quite frankly, if people with EDs think all that means I'm throwing them under the bus, I simply don't care. Not because I don't care about people with EDs, but because I am not in the business of holding the hand of every single person who ever reads my blog, and making sure they all feel 100% warm and fuzzy about every word I write. If you can read my blog and somehow convince yourself I wish to silence people with EDs -- which some people inevitably do -- then the problem is your reading comprehension skills, not my insensitivity.
And without having read the article in question, I'm pretty sure that's the gist of what I'd have to say in response to the author.
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